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male slave, looking for mistress

i am a 23 year old college student who is a subby looking for a mistress. Im looking to find somebody who i can make a lifestyle chastity contract with and have a relationship where i am completely sexually controlled. i have some experience with bondage and chastity and cbt, and am looking forward to more ;)

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Crossdressing

I preferVersatile
Been with a crossdresserNo
Looking for someone passable?Yes

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:woods, anything in nature really.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:forrest within 500 feet of someone property.

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height185 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureSmile
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusUnemployed
Job Titlestudent

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Empathy, Power, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA woman who can control me and set me free. Who can be my worst nightmare when i deserve it, or my princess to warship.
Our first datea lot of talking about what we want and getting to know each other intellectually and emotionally.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mistress
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoySpanking
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, Pantyhose / Stockings, Smoking

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Swapping parties, Dungeon clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isI want to try it
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":none that i know of at the moment.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasya long term chastity teasing type of fantasy. i want to be locking into chastity for long term (months) and only allowed arousal and orgasm on rare occasions where they have to be earned. i would of course be bound or cuffed when released, so i can not touch myself. The idea of being sexually controlled by a woman is extremely hot to me, and the idea or having my penis locked up and owned by a Woman is something i want to have done to me.
Fantasy locationParents house
Fantasy sex partner:A Woman who can take control of me and train me as a good submissive. Someone who has the right amount of empathy to be kind and caring, but a cold enough heart to inflict punishments when my behavior requires it.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Disciplinary Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:no preference.
Implement:Hand, Cane, Switch (rod), Belt
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:No limits

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Total 24/7 control
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear
Ideal session:I would prefer to do continuous work on my slave training until i am a well trained submissive. punishment and rewards would be used for positive and negative renforcement of the training.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:being bound, and let out of chastity only to be teased and put back in as a punishment for doing something wrong or bad.